Be professional

I don't know why people take advise as a personal matters. For me when come to discuss about work there is no such thing as take it personally. I like to be more open and discuss things in a cool manner and no heart feeling. During discussion it's okay to say your own opinion, but it doesn't mean your ideas acceptable by the group. Whatever it is open up and no heart feeling so you're at the right track. What happen during discussion the person burst out loud and cry in front of  you. For sure I can't say much about it and unable to tackle such environment. All I have to do is wait until the person calm enough to say his opinion. I don't really understand why this situation exist among professional people. I think I have to learn more about human feeling so I can understand them more when the same scene happen.

Think before do

A story on TV make me really think,why people think based on what they can see or hear. The story is about how a girl reported her being raped, but the court not really on her side. The story make the rapist free without fair evaluation. For sure there are more rational people around. Think about it before you make any conclusion because your thinking might not true or you need second opinion for sure to make final decision. Anyway the process is clear think before do and don't make conclusion before sure enough about it.

Adakah?

Jika kamu di beri kebebasan

kamu akan berjaya dalam hidup

Adakah

jika rambut kamu punk di tegur ikut aturan 

kamu akan siksa di masa depan kamu

Adakah berpakaian kemas itu 

menjadikan hidup kamu miskin di masa depan

Adakah

teguran guru itu

menjadikan kamu tidak berguna di masa hadapan

Adakah kamu

tidak mahu berubah menyebabkan

kamu lari dari disiplin diri

Adakah kamu senang

jika hidup kamu dibiarkan tidak sempurna

Adakah kamu mahu bina hidup sendiri tanpa

didikan yang betul dari guru kamu

fikirlah jika di tegur untuk kebaikan

kerana hanya guru yang prihatin

dapat membina diri kamu

menjadi insan yang kreatif dan berguna

pada diri dan orang lain

fikirkan

 teguran itu

agar kamu dapat bina diri yang benar benar manusia

don't ignore those needed help

Many students unable to express their feelings although satisfied or not. They just follow whatever given to them. Sometimes you can see them protest what we see as' discipline problem' Do they really having discipline problem or are we not doing a good job to protect them or understand their problems. Usually the discipline teachers blame for not doing the punishment. Why the students argue with the teacher? Do the students really mean to argue or they just want explain their situation. Are you a good listener? Have you ask with politeness what actually the students facing? Do you alert enough what the students need? Who is the learner? think about it when you try to discipline anyone around you. You will be questioned later for what you did to the others around you. Think about it and try to change 360 degrees if you think that the best thing to do.

how to upgrade students potential?

I decided to think smart of how to make students learn to see their talents. I ask them to show their skills in which many teachers unable to see or don't care much about it. I decided to go down to the students level to make me see the whole process. To my surprise I can see more than enough that these students really talented and lose much of their time without showing it. 

Now I have a chance to help them .How? two practicum teachers  really help me a lot. First, I ask them to train the students to make different performance from traditional one. The talented magic show, then boria new verse with rap song, then shuffle dance followed by break dance and the last one zapin traditional dance and all in one show.I want to tell the students that they can do anything that still acceptable and not really against the school rules.I hope my good intention will open up their minds to see there are many potential they can show and achieve out there. The first step is just for the opening and hope to see more of good things later.

BE YOURSELF

WHATEVER YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE BE YOURSELF AND APPRECIATE IT IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE FOR GOOD DON'T WAIT CHANGE 360 DEGREES TO ACHIEVE IT

Why people unable to see his/her mistake?

I believe my children capable to go further in life. I believe Allah gives them a chance to change for better. I don't believe human opportunity stopped just because they lack of something or vice verse. My believe in    something make me feel everybody got potential in life. I asks my daughter to apply to private university and she's accepted. Although many people around her felt she's not capable, I believe she is. I told them to give her a chance for her to conquered her lost spirit to fight and build her own life later. I pray to Allah may her mission and vision will be blessed.


IS THIS A KIND OF MISTAKE? AM I AT THE RIGHT TRACK? ALTHOUGH NO ONE BELIEVE I BELIEVE ALLAH KNOWS EVERYTHING AND I HOPE MY KIDS FUTURE MUCH BRIGHTER AND LIT  THE OTHERS AS WELL.




Haven't you experience the kids said their parents nagged them again and again. I did. I thanked them for doing so. I will never feel this good if my parents didn't care what and will happened to me later.IS IT NAG?
I missed few fun things, but I  got more to enjoy later. WHICH ONE DO YOU WANT? FUN DURING CHILDHOOD OR LOSE MANY THINGS LATER? 
THINK ,THINK!